A GUIDE FOR LADS: LASTING LONGER IN BED

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It has never been a problem for me, as you can see from my public porn releases here, but it is a bit of a bitch that some guys have bedroom problems. These can be all over the place, from not getting the rhythm right to being unable to please their women (or man), among other things.
I have already blogged about how to get your lady to hit that big-o a couple of times and another on getting a girl to squirt. I’ve even written about how guys can tickle their p-spot to get an anal orgasm for all of you adventurous lads.
But given how pervasive (and possibly growing) this issue is, I thought that I would do the net a favor by writing about how a guy can last longer in bed.

Grab a drink, dudes, because this is going to be an epic read.

▎Problematic: how pervasive is the PE issue?

To dispel some myths and misconceptions out there about how long sex can (or should) last in bed and what is realistic. To get this out of the way, as great as porn is, very often, the premium stuff is not exactly an accurate representation of what most people are capable of doing.

Even in gonzo scenes, the actual sex lasts longer than the edited-down version that you are seeing. Also, keep in mind that you are watching professionals fuck, so don’t feel like if you can’t hammer away for a good forty-five minutes that there is something wrong with you, there isn’t.

Besides, unless you are doing it with an actual pornstar or a high libido lassie (or lad, I suppose), most partners are not going to be interested in going on for that long.

Instead, for most people, sex lasts just under five and a half minutes. Apparently, this average seems to be satisfactory, more or less, for most folks. That said, when it comes to premature ejaculation, you might cum minutes faster than that, assuming you can keep it up, or get it up, at all. And to make things especially worrisome, over half of men have or will experience erectile dysfunction, with a five to fifteen percent increase in guys over the last few decades!

▎Technique: try these sex solutions

Jack off before doing the deed

This may seem counterintuitive, but hear me out, or rather, read this through. This can help out a lot if it is difficult to master your man meat’s ejaculation time. To paraphrase Kat Williams, the first nut is slippery, amma right?

Naturally, I would be remiss if I did not plug the many websites that I have reviewed over the years which make for excellent wank material. Hell, if your significant other is into it, get off together first to set the mood, get inspired, and most likely keep that pesky PE problem at bay once you’re up, in more ways than one, and ready to go…again.

Train your pelvic floor muscles

Kegel exercises are not just for women and folks who like to get fucked in the ass. This muscle control technique actually can help and possibly even cure your ED issue. Would you believe that some authorities recommend it as the first attempt to deal with your dick woes?

To get into the basics, your starting position is to lay down flat with your hands on the floor, but your knees should be bent. The draw your dick toward your body (think turtle necking) for five seconds, then relax. After that squeeze, your asshole muscles for another five seconds then repeat about eight to ten times. Try this same sequence again on your sides, too. Something else you can try is to sit in a chair and then try to ‘hold it in,’ as if you are trying to keep yourself from pissing. Again hold for five seconds then relax, and after that wash rinse and repeat eight to ten times.

Those are just the basics, so look up the more advanced techniques online.

Learn how to edge it up

If you are having an issue of cumming early and/or have an issue with endurance, then edging may be the (other) silver bullet for you. In essence, all you need to do – or perhaps a good friend does this for you – is start wanking away for as long as possible.

This is not a two-minute operation, the idea is to last as long as possible. While there is no cut-and-dry number, I would recommend that you go for at least twenty to thirty minutes. Now, you will have to apply a lot of self-control, perhaps slowing down or speeding up, changing grip, or letting go all together, you are going to have to practice self-discipline like a motherfucker.

In addition to helping train your body to sort out your premature ejaculation issues, your various training sessions’ big finish can be truly earth-shattering. Even if PE isn’t an issue for you, I recommend everyone try this both men and women.

Switch up your sex positions

Maybe some of those things do not quite work for you, or perhaps aren’t enough. A decent supplement to all of this would be by trying different to fuck in different configurations. That does not mean that you have to start mining the Kama Sutra or anything – but I do think people should consider it – but mixing things up might just do it for you.

And even if this is not the solution for you, once you get your issue figured out, you have a whole new series of options to try out in the future. If you need some inspiration, look up my blog about Neat Sex Positions to Bang the New Year In and also The Five Best Sex Positions to Make a Girl Orgasm.

▎Products: consider buying these items

If physical training is not enough, or simply is not effective at all, there is nothing wrong with relying on specialty products. In case you are worried about cost, all of these products are easy to find and usually fairly inexpensive.

Wear a typical condom, stupid

Now, all of you strapping lads who are out and about on the many “dating” apps and websites out there and smashing should be wearing a fucking Jimmy cap. Just need to put that public statement out there since, unless you are a regularly tested sex worker, you don’t want to risk being in a drippy or other situation.

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Anyway, whether you are in a relationship or not, if you are having issues with cumming too quickly, then a rubber might be just the simple solution that provides sensation, but without overstimulation. Being the hypergraphic, hypersexual that I am, I have compiled a fine number of condom recommendations that you should consider.

Consider some meds

The first thing I am going to mention is certain special wipes you can use. Instead of trying to numb your dick with cough medicine or cut something off (yikes!) consider numbing wipes. They only temporarily reduce sensitivity you can last longer than normal.

Supposedly, there are all sorts of herbs and other ‘natural’ remedies to cure a problematic cock, but I am not going to endorse or slam them. There might be some that work for certain people, but since I don’t have the time to check every hippy’s claims, instead, I prefer to look at the stuff that has been backed by science.

One of the miracles that have helped the porn industry more than any other is the little blue pill. While I do want to warn you against popping them like candy, Mr. Viagra (or its derivatives) is a near surefire way to

If you are looking for a trustworthy brand to find these sorts of supplements, check out For Hims. In addition to many other men’s health products, they carry plenty of verified medications that are nearly guaranteed to work.

Try ‘alt’ technology, maybe

As it turns out, penis pumps are not just a means of making your dick (temporarily) bigger. Apparently, it is recommended to help get your little pecker to turn into a raging red devil. Just be careful and don’t overdo it since you certainly don’t want to wreck yourself or get so stimulated that you blow in your boner aid. I am not totally convinced, but supposedly there are devices out there that vibrate at certain frequencies – no, you don’t have to stick it in your ass – like GAINSWave, but I will let you guys look into it.

▎Blanks: the other ‘elephant’ in the discussion

While it might be, pardon the pun, hard for some guys to get there. There are others who have an issue with getting erect and/or cumming way too quick, some guys can stay hard but never fire off any juice. It looks like delayed ejaculation is not as common as its opposite, being only in about 1-4% of guys, it is still a problem that needs to be addressed in this blog all the same.

▎Solutions: good news, there are many

Once again, there are plenty of solutions to this problem as well. I researched several but have whittled down my results to what I consider to be the best and linked some of my previous work to give you all even more information.

Lube, lube, lube it up (!)

If your willy cannot pump out that baby juice or even reach that ecstatic moment of sex at all, one of the most simplistic solutions is super easy to put into practice. Whether it is a guy who has some kind of hang-up or his partner is a little dry down there, just dap in a little bit of lubricant and it could do wonders for your love life.

Of course, I have already written plenty on sensual lubricants that I endorse, which are archived on the blog. Having tried a few of them already, I can tell you that they certainly are worth sampling. Some of these you can make at home yourself! Oh, and I’ll add this too, there are condoms that really add to the sensation and should add that extra ‘oomph to keep your cock extended and entertained. Again, look at the list that I have linked to earlier.

Take some time off

If you feel like too often you are throwing an uncooked hot dog down a hallway too often, then take the pressure off your mind and go on a sex hiatus. Sure, that is something that a nympho guy or gal is not going to want to hear, but if pitching a tent is, pardon the pun, hard, taking time off from fucking could do wonders.

Furthermore, it is worth considering the cliché that distance does make the heart grow fonder and erection harder. So, maybe if you are in a ‘real’ relationship, plan a mini-vacation wherein you or your significant other is no longer physically present. I knew a guy who said that it worked. He told me, “now I have a tremendous sex drive!” “Really, what’s that like? I asked and he said, “Long but worth it, my girlfriend lives fifty miles away.”

Also, I will point out, as I have before, you should be sure to take of your health, in general. Besides going out for a jog or spending time in the gym, a good diet will do wonders for your sex life. Hell, if you diet right, you can make your cum taste a hell of a lot better. I am sure all you guys can guess why that is going to be a great bonus.

You should also take it easy when it comes to how much tipple you’re taking in before taking a trip to the bedroom.

“Talk dirty to me”

One of the most powerful things when it comes to sex is what is going on in the mind. If you ask me, it is arguably the most potent and enjoyable part of a hardcore pumping session. Not everyone is into it – and in my experience, some people have never tried it – but I would suggest everyone try a little dirty talk at least once.

I would caution you not to jump into anything way too quick or anything. Take time to have at least a little discussion with your squeeze about words, terms, and other statements that you would (and would not) like to hear. From there, I would start experimenting.

▎Both: these can help, no matter the <span
malfunction

So far, I have been focusing on solutions either for early ejaculation or not being able to cum at all. But to cover the field, there are at least a few different things that can apply to both of them.

Skip ‘traditional’ sex altogether

I am not slamming sticking the meat in the front door (or the back for that matter) but if you are having problems in the bedroom, then mix things up. The first thing that I would suggest would be to try focusing on, or exclusively doing, oral sex. Whether you prefer to switch off or pull a good ol’ 69, it is something that I would be willing to try.

If you need a guide on how to lick a dick properly, I have a blog on that as well. This epic beast of an article includes plenty of references on how to go down on a gal for maximum pleasurable effect.

Similarly, you can try handjobs reciprocated by some great finger banging. For that matter, you might want to skip penetration of any sort altogether. Sound like it’s impossible to be intimate by that criteria? Well, you can try stuff like erotic massage and rubbing various erogenous zones as the ones blogged about here.

Tickle each other with some toys

Besides trying different forms of fucking or being sensual without penetration, you might want to just stick to sticking it in or on a certain body party. Considering the fact that certain sex toys are designed to mimic human anatomy and others or not, both can be a great way to have fun in an alternative way and also train your body to go from having an always limp rope to a long-term extended pole.

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By the way, if you are looking for toys that I recommend, I have written several blogs that will be of benefit to you no matter what sort of sex setup you have with your partner. For items to excite the ladies, look at this not so little list. For the fellas, I have another post, too.

In case you want to save money, have the right equipment lying around your domicile, or can be creative, check out these homemade sex toys you can use. And lastly, for those of you whose erotic tastes are more on the spicy side, look at what you can do with dungeon gear like this.

Consider bringing in a sex-erpt

Consider bringing in a sex-erpt
Alright, I confess, this might be a little strange to some of you, but I do think that there are people out there who should really consider counseling. Sure, that can include a ‘traditional’ therapist, but to recognize and deal with what is causing the real problem inside your head. However, I think that a specialist, like a sex surrogate, can do wonders if you’re willing to give one a shot. It can also be a fun way to spice your sex life up without committing to an open relationship.

As I said already, the causes for either erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation can be chemical in nature; it can also be psychological or a result of trauma. Another issue, as far as I am convinced, that can fuck up a fellas phallus responsiveness can be a result of guilt, especially the religious kind. Given who repressed and, frankly, weird some people in hyper-religious circles are – and that’s coming from me (!) – if you were raised a fundie, then you might have some sexual baggage that you might not have addressed yet.

Anyway, this is all something to consider and it leads to something you may want to try to hire a professional.

Psyched up, this is a mind game

Before spending any money, you might be overthinking your situation. Of course, everyone’s situation is different, but your penile problems may not be as severe as you think. For example, you might be under too much stress due to work or something else that is eating up your time. Some people might have bedroom problems due to relationship dysfunction that has not been reconciled yet. So, that is something to consider.

To sum this up, if in doubt, just try the “think of Grandma” technique if you think you might blow too soon – just not too long because, well, you know. And if you can stay or get it up at all, maybe a little bit of internal fantasizing can do a lot for you, too.

Otherwise, reconsider all of my suggestions and go from there.

W4Porn.com of a final words

Do you think that I covered everything that I needed to? I definitely think so. I do have a slew of elucidative, snarky, and shocking blogs queued up, but I want to know, what do you guys think that I should cover in the future? You can contact me through my Inbox or on Comment.
Anyway, there will be a new blog post you can find nowhere else on the web in a matter of days. Look forward to it and have loads of fun until then.

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